Cuckold phone sex fantasies become more popular by the day. And most men need a therapist like me to help them navigate their new world as a cuckold. Most men that I talk to want their wives to take a lover. Black or young. Just hung with very little downtime required in between fucking. Most men as they age realize they could no longer give their wives the type of fucking they need. Either their dicks no longer work, or their dicks shrunk or just never seemed that big to begin with.
On the phone, men call me because they want their wives to cheat on them. In my private practice, however, most of the men do not want their wives cheating on them. They came to the wrong therapist for that. If a wife cheats on her man, it’s usually because of something the man did.
Women don’t cheat nearly as easily as men to. Men see big tits, and a pretty face or a young body, and think with their cocks. However, women cheat because you do not sexually satisfy them or you are emotionally, distant and cruel to her. Take care of her physical needs and her emotional needs and that equals a happy wife.
However, men let their ego get in the way. And they let themselves become selfish. By that I mean, they no longer eat pussy. They do not finger the pussy. Basically, they do absolutely nothing to make sure their wife cums before they do. You took an oath to keep your wife happy. And the way I see it, that that means doing whatever you need to do to make her physically and emotionally happy.
You Took a Vow to Your Wife to Make Her Happy
Even if that means letting her have a surrogate lover so she can have an orgasm like you do so easily. But you have that orgasm because your wife is blowing you, giving you a hand job, or fucking you. So don’t be selfish. Make your wife feel good like she makes you feel good.
I do not think you should feel ashamed that you do not have a dick that gets the job done. However, you should feel ashamed if you prevent your wife from having the sexual pleasure she desires and needs. So, this phone sex therapist never discourages a woman from cheating if their husband has a small cock and he no longer tries to do anything to make sure she experiences a good orgasm.
No one wants a selfish lover. And no one wants to be sexually frustrated either. But your wife’s happiness lies in your hands. And if you refuse to let her take a lover who can make her orgasm, then you do not deserve your wife. I will make sure everybody knows that.
I had a session Friday afternoon in my home office with a new couple. A friend of mine in the business referred them to me. They needed a sex therapist. In a nutshell, the husband discovered that his wife fucked the pool boy. I know it sounds cliché, but for stay-at-home moms and women, often time the only cock that comes to them in the form of handymen, repairmen, pool boys, and delivery guys. And let me tell you how unhappy this woman appeared to be. Her husband expects a blow job every day. However, the last time he ate her pussy, Obama was president.
No Woman Wants a Selfish Lover
And he seemed shocked when I looked at him square in the eyes and told him he does not deserve his wife. However, she appeared vindicated. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a female client beam so brightly. She only took the pool boy lover this past year. He attends college. So, you know, I approved of that.
His dick has not betrayed him yet at that age. Plus, a boy that age just wants to fuck a hot mature woman. He does not want to marry her. So, her husband can rest assured that his wife will not leave him for the pool boy. But that does not mean she won’t leave him. Just eat some fucking pussy, finger your wife’s pussy every now and then, and step aside when she wants to bring a young lover home.
Phone sex therapy operates in a similar fashion. I usually side with your wife. Because I believe a woman’s pleasure is more important than your pleasure. Take care of your fucking wife and she will fuck you. Take care of just you and she will leave you. It’s that simple.